Friday, March 29, 2019

Yoga: The Lexicon of Subconscious.

Yoga: The Lexicon of Subconscious.

It was a sultry summer afternoon. The boy stood hesitantly on the submerged slimy half wall of the village pond. Little fishes fondled his feet. The son looked at his father who was balanced in the water, with skepticism on his ability to swim but with confidence in those open arms. “You can do it”, the dad insisted. The child closed his eyes and jumped into the cold water; moved his hands and legs freely, feeling the support of his dad; floated in the water, moved slowly and started swimming.  The man was my dad and that’s how I learned to swim. No water acclimatization; no kicking lessons; no rowing practices; no floating devices. (This is not to encourage anybody to take this path; just to say how Faith, Confidence and Hetero Suggestion worked for me then)

On a remote island, on a stormy night, a young girl sat in front of a small congregation listening to their pastor on his sermon on faith. The gathering was stranded on the island when the storm broke loose. After several hours, the pastor and the rest of his group was able to find a boat to the mainland. They were astonished to see that young girl there and wondered how she reached there - so fast in the storm and in the rain. The girl said: “didn’t you say that we can walk on the water, if we have faith”

“If I just touch his cloak, I will be healed” and with this belief the woman inched forward in the crowd and touched His robe and she was freed from her suffering.

The denominator in last two stories is the same: a stage for autosuggestion, hetero suggestion, faith or belief; proclamation; and manifestation. We may call it mystery, phenomenon or miracle; modern thinkers call it the power of subconscious mind – the non-argumentative, non-squabbling self that do not dispute what was passed to it. It indelibly mark those suggestions, thoughts, feelings and emotion and present them in all its glory and marvel at the right time. The key to etch these feelings, emotions and thoughts into the subconscious is to bypass the conscious mind – the watch dog – that is continually modulated by temptations and instant gratifications.

Yoga, meditation and mindfulness is a gift given to us to access the subconscious mind. I have taken “Impregnation of subconscious” as the theme of my classes for the next few months. When you set the stage for the beginning of the yoga practice with breathing, when you move mindfully to execute one of those millions of poses listening to the Body, Energy, Action, Direction, Elaboration and Dynamic stability, you’re moving with your subconscious mind. Sub themes of strength, balance, detox and mindfulness are handy tools to train the subconscious. When you hear  “center yourself”, “find your sacred place” or “leave your strengths, weaknesses, imperfections, money, job, relationships, health, beauty for the next sixty minutes”  remember the stage the yogini is setting for you and be ready to act: sync with your subconscious  mind.

Hope to you some time in one of my classes.

Love,

Jay

P. S. “A man is what he thinks about all day long”, R. W. Emerson

Friday, January 18, 2019

Lifestyle Adherence


Hope 2019 is treating you well; and you are returning the favor as well.


I recently heard about “failure Friday”- the second Friday of the New Year when many fall off their resolutions!  Also heard the best time to buy used fitness equipment is February. I pondered these two hypotheses; there seems some meat in them.

So, why we fall off that precipice? Why struggle to adhere and commit to the newly perceived norms? My two cents (rather four):

1. Ask: Why are you doing what are you doing and how? So what?


2. You and, of course, many have told who you are and that has engrained in your brain. Remember: you are more than what you (and others) think. I strongly believe we are pliable (in a good way): we can modulate our body, we can control our mind, and could still tether our soul to “that” original cord.


3. Get the right information, synthesize your own and pave your own path (one size will not fit all; or, there are several paths to the same destination). Google, YouTube, Alexa, Internet, advices, even peer-reviewed publications are only leads; build on that. I write for a website   https://healthy-indian.com/ . It’s a good site for life style practices. Recently they published one of my essays - https://healthy-indian.com/lifestyle/are-genes-really-our-destiny/ there is no dearth of information.

4. Acquaint with what you do; make a truce, a friendship and a bond. Find somebody who can motivate and inspire (or, even drag you to the gym). Like we say in yoga, it’s a time to recognize the grace we seek (warrior 1); stability we aspire (warrior 2), balance we nurture (warriors 3), humility we develop (meek warrior) and the ensuing success (exalted warrior). These qualities will stay with you like a valiant friend in our journey – like Veerbhadra to Shiva, Krishna to Arjun, faith to Job or Katniss Everdeen to Peeta Mellark.


Continued Best,


Jay


Friday, January 4, 2019

Wish you all an Idyllic 2019!


Fair Fights.

Idyllic New Year to you, your family and loved ones. Wish you all the best in 2019 – A Blessed year to pursue goals with passion and perseverance.
Let your resolutions be your dreams
Imperfections and disappointments to fuel them
(In life there are no failures, only invitations to succeed)
Truth to light your path

Our creativity, talents and commitments are like timid wild animals. Seek them gently with care to ground them. Try to connect with them and accept them with love. I had talked in the past on the transition from sympathetically active flight, fight, freeze or faint to parasympathetically active realm of feed, relax and happy - a journey to discover the soul, the purpose of your life. There are few fights you may have to pick up, though; like a matador, with a purpose:

1.     Fight the feeling to be dissatisfied and unsatisfied. Change is a journey, sometimes long, that sting often. Gaining the mastery against the external influence (causes for discontentment) is a treacherous odyssey. A tortoise with its limbs withdrawn give clarity to that action. Make your goals comfortable, stable and steady. You are the reference and the judge. Let realities replace perceptions with right association (especially with food) and impressions.

2.    Fight the urge to devalue yourself. The power to transform yourself is in you- listen to your body, mind and spirit and be mindful. Differentiate challenges and struggles. Ability to find solutions to challenges is the beginning of your intelligence. Always ask: How are you doing? Why are you doing what are you doing? ...so what? Teach yourself! You are the one who knows you the best. Work with your strengths, recognizing your imperfections. One way to know something is to know yourself; to get closer to something is to get closer to yourself; and to learn something is to teach yourself.

3.    Fight the impulse to be (too) self-centered. Honor others. Ask for help when you need and help them in need. You may have a lot to offer to them and much more to learn from them. We are no more islands and it’s no more the survival of the fittest; cooperatively we all thrive. Thoughts, practices, talents, efforts, skills, passion and perseverance may all be absorbed from right associations. The opportunity to watch, observe and learn in a group setting makes one gritty; it creates herd immunity and collective resilience.

All the best to you this year and years ahead; Love,

Jay